APPROACHING ME FOR THE FIRST TIME πIMPORTANT:β DM with your $20 tribute OR subscribe to @mistressella if you want to talk and unlock my interest in you as a long-term sub.β First impressions matter. Start as you mean to go on.β Use correct honorifics when addressing me. I am Mistress, Goddess, Queen or Mommy.π« Do NOT call me "Ma'am".β Make every message that you send to me meaningful.π« No pointless small talk. If you are tempted to ask "How are you?" know that if I am online, I am feeling fine or better.π« No spam. Keep everything in one message, not endless mini half sentences.β Respect my role. You are in my space for a reason.π« The right to be bratty is earned. Brat taming is fun! But I don't tame brats I barely know.